to Survive in International Marriage
Goal – American Husband. Learn about Your Partner's Expectations
year, over 200,000 citizens of the United States marry foreign-born
persons and petition for them to obtain permanent residence in the U.S.”
This book written for those who seek or build intercultural marriage,
for those, who just want to become more culture competent and well-
rounded, for those, who look for a good spiritual story with some struggle,
some humor, and some life advices. This book is for people who cherish
Have you ever seen a black hen sacrifice in order to help your finances?
Have you heard about black ram sacrifice for the sake of the family?
Have you lived among people who have two problems: “How to earn more
money?” and “Where to immigrate?”
This book will answer all questions Americans asked me during last
six years of my marriage to an American man! This is the first book
written by a Russian wife from Uzbekistan, a Muslim Republic, who describes
Uzbekistan and creates rules for a happy international marriage.
Why do you I have a desire to write about my international marriage?
Why do I feel the responsibility? Well, I am moved by one goal – to
help people understand other cultures, and to guide Americans in their
search of happy relationship. It is easy to be happy when you have beauty,
health, and wealth. If you want your marriage to be stable, to survive
hardships, you have to be prepared for parent-child relationship, first.
My husband almost died 3 times during our marriage. He survived not
just because he was married to me, but because he was my mentor in this
country. He did not hesitate to teach me everything he could about the
language, customs, driving, and making decisions for both of us.
Are you willing to compromise in your international marriage? I was,
that is why we moved a lot, and Florida is my firth state in 7 years.
Did he compromise? Yes, when he let me put his personal information
in the book. I know one man, who was afraid to compromise, and now he
has Russian wife, who lost her beauty and her mind. She was in a mental
care several times already.
Yes, it is easy in some ways to have a foreign wife. Because she is
more patient than American women are. Why? She can not get mad at you
and slam the door, and go to stay at her Mom’s house! That is why foreign
wife learns patience here, where she has no other family but you.
Americans, who think that foreign wife is a cheap wife are wrong. I
explain all those details in my book.
I married a mature man, who helped me mature, so we both can take care
of our family and be happy. It is important to both partners to be dedicated
to adapt, to adjust, to listen, to learn, to transform in international
marriage. People do change. If you are not ready for a change, you are
not ready for international marriage. People can grow mature, learn
from their mistakes. Keith and I found that love, patience and dedication
to stay married will help people to survive in multicultural marriage.
My book is available on yahoo.com,
Or directly from the publisher (faster) authorhouse.com
. Thanks for taking time to read this introduction to my book. Please
see reviews to it: How
to Survive in International Marriage
Be well. God bless. Happy holidays from Oksana Leslie.
books about Russian American marriage:
To Survive In International Marriage - Oksana
Leslie's book is a very thorough journey through the challenges
of being a Russian wife of an American husband. The book
not only looks at the many tedious steps involved in becoming
an international wife, but the author takes you inside
the emotional ups and downs of the process.
to America: The Complete Guide for Immigrants This
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know about living in the U.S.
Strangers : The Challenges of Russian-American Marriages The
Cold War may have officially ended, but, as Visson shows,
the battle lives on in the culturally dysfunctional marriages
made by Russians and Americans. Throughout the 20th century,
and often against serious odds, Russians and Americans
have been falling in love and marrying.
Women & Marriage : Love Letters from Russia... Autobiography
about an average American man's adventure to marry a
Russian woman. The book provides a romantic understanding
of why thousands of American men have gone through the
painstaking process of bringing Russian women to America